That form of love is much harder, primarily because it often doesn’t feel very good. It’s unglamorous. It’s lots of early morning doctor’s visits. It’s cleaning up bodily fluids you’d rather not be cleaning up. It’s dealing with another person’s insecurities and fears even when you don’t want to.
But this form of love is also far more satisfying and meaningful. And, at the end of the day, it brings true happiness, not just another series of highs.
Happily Ever After doesn’t exist. Every day you wake up and decide to love your partner and your life-the good, the bad and the ugly. Some days it’s a struggle and some days you feel like the luckiest person in the world.
They get addicted to the ups and downs of romantic love. They are in it for the feels, so to speak. And when the feels run out, so do they. …